Pen Pal: 3 Lives

Dear Ms. Pennie,

I have been dating a woman for 6mos. Recently, I began seeing someone else.  They share a lot of the same characteristics: successful, sexy and fun.The latter knows that I am dating someone else yet I have made no commitment to either. Should I tell them that I plan to continue seeing them both, settle on one or tell them that we are all in this together? 

Help me,

My 3 Lives

Dear 3 Lives,

 The first question is are you looking for commitment with anyone period, or just looking to have fun? There is a reason why somebody else caught your interest, so you should also consider that as well. My advice to you is to not tell them you are dating them both because you are not committed to either, this could cause problems and issues from either side. As a grown man you want to still be respectful, honest, and open and let them both know your options are open and you don’t want anything exclusive. Date both girls casually and sooner or later, one will fade away while the other naturally prevails.

Lets take a look at the Rihanna, Karrueche Tran, and Chris Brown love triangle, we would see pictures of “Ri Ri” and Chris Brown and then pictures of Chris brown and Karreuche. A lot of us were thinking is he dating Karrueche, Rihanna, or do they all date each other? Although this is ultimately none of our business, we now see that Chris and Karreuche have settled down. The best thing to do is go with your true feelings and naturally let dating flow. The best things in life come naturally, and what is meant to be will be. Side note: What do you mean by we’re all in this together ( LOL )? Get your life, all three of them.